O.U.C.H.
Responding to Children with Challenging Behaviors

  1. My Other Hat
  2. Introduction
  3. What are you thinking?
  4. Is it a disability?
  5. Look at all it takes
  6. Say OUCH
  7. Observe
  8. Understand
  9. Change
  10. Help
  11. Heartbreak Graph
  12. Strategies
  13. Resources
  14. Download complete article (pdf)

Look at all it takes to get along!

  • Language – can she understand and use the language(s) needed for joining, cooperating, leaving, feelings, conflict, problem-solving, etc.?
  • Social Skills – does he notice, focus on and respond to social cues and behaviors of others?
  • Cognition & Learning – can he learn and remember rules and expectations?
  • Self-Monitoring – does he pay attention to his own actions, energy level, health, & feelings, and adjust to the situation?
  • Flexibility – Can she adapt to unexpected events? Can she move easily from one place or activity to another? Can she generalize from one event to others that are similar?
  • Sense of Time – does he seem to live only in the moment or can he look forward and reflect back? Can he delay gratification?
  • Impulse Control – can he refrain from inappropriate behavior or language?
  • Frustration Threshold – how easily does she get frustrated?
  • Frustration Tolerance – how well does he handle feelings of frustration?
  • Physiological Sensitivities – does she have issues of health, diet, sleep, stress, allergies...
  • Sensory Integration – How well does he take in and process sights, sounds, textures or movement? Is she over- or under-responsive? Can hhe block out distractions?
  • Moods – is the child generally happy, easy-going? intense? sad? irritable?

and on and on...